write the attached paper in your own words.

What happens after a while when we change culture?

Changing culture sometimes is the step we need or forced to do. Life is in constant flux; we are all afraid of the uncertainty that comes with change. We must overcome our fear of change and embrace it in our lives so that we can experience its opportunity, progression and excitement. I will attempt to give an overview of some reasons that make changing culture difficult.

The first aspect to be discussed is the fear we are facing when changes happen. We are all afraid of leaving this moment and stepping into the next. We would rather things be not so great, than go through the risk and process of change. Ashish is in fear when he wants to do his first flight, he couldn’t relax and resist his feelings. “It was all so strange, this new landscape; it was another world, that made him sad and afraid”. This could be the most difficult challenges we are facing after a while when we change culture.

A further aspect to be considered is intimacy. There is close familiarity and friendship which it is not easy to separate from. This relationship is either between family members or between friends. The girl in Hemins’ Gift couldn’t forget her memories with her father when she was five years old “I remember Christmas time when I was about five years old; sitting on my dad’s lap in my pyjamas”. In At Mumbai Airport, Ashish is missing his friend Narayan: “Finally he felt tears running down his face in an unstoppable stream”. Human relationships are sublime and difficult to forget and separate from.

Another aspect to be taken in consideration is being alone, and not making a new relationship with others. To facilitate the life after changing we must make a new relationship with other people and not to be alone. The girl in Hemins’ Gift tries to find solace in being alone “I hope to find solace in being alone” but she failed, “she doesn’t stop the tears”. However she becomes happy when she meets Hemi, “I’m happy just to lean back and let myself drift on the sound of Hemis’ voice.” Making new relationships is very necessary to make life easier after changing culture.

Because of peoples unstable situation after change happens, they make decision directly about people they are meeting. The girl in Hemins’ Gift judges Hemi, that he is disturbing the peace “he still looks like the kind of person to disturb the peace”. Then she declares that Hemi is a nice and gentle person “I am humbled by this man willing to give a stranger food and company and ask for nothing in return”. It is not a good idea to judge a person at first sight, especially when we are in need of new friends when change happens.

In short, the fear, resistance to change, unstable situation we are facing and the intimacy we have between families and friends are the most difficulties that can be faced when we change culture.