hi I need help please.. Meghan O'Rourke, author of "The Marriage Trap," seems to agree with another author from this section, that we are socialized

hi I need help please.. Meghan O'Rourke, author of "The Marriage Trap," seems to agree with another author from this section, that we are socialized to think of marriage as "the proper goal of a well-lived life". In what specific ways is this true from your personal and cultural experience? Would you argue that this should be a goal or not? What advice do you think